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		<title>the day of no tomorrows</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 04:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There will be a day, soon approaching, which will overcome us in its presence. A day where we won&#8217;t wake up to hear the birds chirping uncharacteristically early in the spring; where we won&#8217;t answer the calls that are incessantly ringing on our cell phones. A day where our tea will go unsipped, and our [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=26&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">There will be a day, soon approaching, which will overcome us in its presence. A day where we won&#8217;t wake up to hear the birds chirping uncharacteristically early in the spring; where we won&#8217;t answer the calls that are incessantly ringing on our cell phones. A day where our tea will go unsipped, and our shoes will sit formidably still in the dark corners of our room.<span>  </span>A day where we won&#8217;t call out in recognition to the people whose faces we recognize, or whose voices we find comfort in; where our to-do lists will be placidly forgotten &#8211; for there is no course of action that we will be able to cling to.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The only certainty of that moment will be the death that enshrouds us, and the death that has overcome us &#8211; the day that no longer considers itself a new beginning when all we can look forward to is the end. We might go about our busy lives, forgetting to pause and reflect or to move and reflect or to breathe and reflect upon the warnings of Allah &#8211; but a silence, almost too forbearing in nature, will creep up on you, perhaps silently, perhaps wickedly. Reminding you, for the briefest and uninterrupted of moments, that you &#8211; yes you &#8211; will die.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You might start writing something enthusiastically, overcome by the urgency of your task, and suddenly, sweepingly you stare down at your hands. Hands that will, no doubt, become fodder in a grave whose brightness is unknown. And maybe this creepingly small thought will shake you to the core &#8211; for in the busyness of your day and the quickness in your tasks, what is it exactly that you do anyway if it doesn&#8217;t ultimately lead to your protection in what really matters?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">This life &#8211; oh, not a life &#8211; this mere existence that we feign importance on, hurts at times with an acuteness that cannot be soothed with any worldly balm, or wooed distractingly by any worldly charm. Nothing in fact can ease your heart besides Allah. Nothing. We might stare blankly into space realizing as it begins to dawn &#8211; whatever you do right now will not matter unless you do it for Allah.<span>  </span>And doesn&#8217;t that thought scare you? Doesn&#8217;t that thought just itch away at the recesses of your mind and erode the very thought you had of life, when you&#8217;ve convinced yourself that you&#8217;re routine is safe, that your relationships are safe, and that your existence ultimately is safe? How foolish a thought!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And suddenly, it hits you &#8211; with more force than you ever were aware of, whipping away at the folds of your existence like a gust of unexpected wind whipping away at your clothing. If you continue this little dance with your mind, this little charade that you&#8217;ve bubbled around yourself for fear of acknowledging the truth &#8211; your mere existence will have passed away, without so much a thought or a care &#8211; because really, did you think? And did you care? Or were you too fulfilled with your false sense of importance to actually think that your life mattered outside of what you intended for Allah? Indeed, the soul is weak. And you &#8211; your soul the weakest.</p>
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<h3><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;">&#8220;Truly in the heart there is a void that can not be removed except with the company of </span><span style="color:#666699;font-weight:normal;">Allah</span><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;">. And in it there is a sadness that can not be removed except with the happiness of knowing </span><span style="color:#666699;font-weight:normal;">Allah</span><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;"> and being true to </span><span style="color:#666699;font-weight:normal;">Him</span><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;">. And in it there is an emptiness that can not be filled except with love for </span><span style="color:#666699;font-weight:normal;">Him</span><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;"> and by turning to </span><span style="color:#666699;font-weight:normal;">Him</span><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;"> and always remembering </span><span style="color:#666699;font-weight:normal;">Him</span><span style="color:#993366;font-weight:normal;">. And if a person were given all of the world and what is in it, it would not fill this emptiness.&#8221;</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;">-Ibn al-Qayyim Al-Jawziyya</span></div>
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		<title>is it just me, or is it dark in here?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2008 06:45:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One night, my mom and I were on our way to pick up a rental car, and we were driving in what seemed to me like complete darkness. To gauge how dark it really was, I glanced at my watch and was surprised; It twinkles at the very hint of light, and yet I couldn&#8217;t [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=25&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One night, my mom and I were on our way to pick up a rental car, and we were driving in what seemed to me like complete darkness. To gauge how dark it really was, I glanced at my watch and was surprised; It twinkles at the very hint of light, and yet I couldn&#8217;t even see it on my wrist. SubhanAllah, something that was so evident with even the tiniest amount of light was virtually unrecognizable in the midst of all this darkness.</p>
<p>It was at that point where I remembered the verses in <i>Surat TaHa</i> -</p>
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<p><b><span style="color:#006699;">&#8220;But whosoever turns away from My Reminder (i.e. neither believes in this Quran nor acts on its orders, etc.) verily, for him is a life of hardship, and We shall raise him up blind on the Day of Resurrection.&#8221; </span></b>[124]<br />
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<p><b><span style="color:#006699;">He will say:&#8221;O my Lord! Why have you raised me up blind, while I had sight (before).&#8221; </span></b>[125]</p>
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<p><b><span style="color:#006699;">(Allah) will say: &#8220;Like this, Our Ayat <i>(proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.)</i> came unto you, but you disregarded them <i>(i.e. you left them, did not think deeply in them, and you turned away from them)</i>, and so this Day, you will be neglected <i>(in the Hell-fire, away from Allah&#8217;s Mercy)</i>.&#8221; </span></b>[126]</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Before this point, I genuinely did not understand how non-Muslims, the one&#8217;s who are aware of the signs and beauty of Islam, do not see the truth so clearly when it&#8217;s shining like a bright light in front of them. I know Allah <i>subhanaHu wata&#8217;ala</i> puts them in a state of ghaflah <i>(heedlessness)</i> &#8211; and while their eyes can see just fine, their mind and intellect is completely clouded by the darkness of the night. So much so that not even one jewel or gem of Islam is evident while they are in that state.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So while I was in the car, trying to recognize my watch, this hit me. I knew that this watch was jeweled and beautiful &#8211; whether it was in the dark or not. I knew this because I&#8217;ve seen it in the light and can recognize it as my own. If I, however, had constantly been in this darkness (without exception), I wouldn&#8217;t even realize there was a watch there at all.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">SubhanAllah, this is how it is for them. Their perception intellectually is covered by darkness &#8211; to the extent where they would come across the gem and beauty of Islam, which regardless of whether or not they acknowledge it to be so, remains as priceless as it is &#8211; but lack the vision and proper state to recognize that this jewel in front of them is in fact, quite clearly and indisputably, the most valuable thing they&#8217;ll ever have the opportunity to come across in this life.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The amazing part is &#8211; when Allah <i>subhanaHu wata&#8217;ala </i>wills to guide them, they can be taken out of that darkness for even a tenth of a second (in relation to my watch at this point, there was a car passing us that let off some light and I saw a bit of the twinkle) &#8211; but if they <i><b>noticed</b></i> that gem shining, they would then realize that what they thought was light, wasn&#8217;t indeed light. But because they&#8217;ve been in darkness for their entire life, they&#8217;ve come to accept it as what they see by. At that point, if Allah wills to guide them, they will go out searching for more of this light so that they may perhaps see fully this gem that had initially caught their eye.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And so it is &#8211; the gem itself in beauty, magnificence and glory is a gem whether you cannot see it in the night, or whether you can. But to recognize that you have that gem is when Allah <i>subhanaHu wata&#8217;ala</i> allows from His Mercy to shed light on the gem of Islam (even if it be for a split second) &#8211; for you to recognize the beauty of it.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:#cc0066;">I believe in Islam like I believe in the sun rising, not just because I can see it, but because, by it, I see everything else.</span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">-unknown</p>
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		<title>the water spill</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was in one of my design classes learning an Adobe program a few years ago when this one guy next to me (it&#8217;s a computer lab, so not much choice on where to sit) started asking me about religion. I mentioned that I didn&#8217;t understand how they considered God to be one when they [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=24&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was in one of my design classes learning an Adobe program a few years ago when this one guy next to me (it&#8217;s a computer lab, so not much choice on where to sit) started asking me about religion. I mentioned that I didn&#8217;t understand how they considered God to be one when they divided him into three parts. He told me to look at the clock <i>(as if this would be my epiphany)</i> &#8211; the dial, the numbers, etc &#8211; they were all parts to one clock &#8211; and that&#8217;s how God is.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Well of course at this I raised my brow and said&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color:#990033;">&#8220;A clock? You&#8217;re comparing God to a clock? This is just like the time when someone I know compared God to an egg or an ice cube. <i>I</i> wouldn&#8217;t even want to be compared to a clock, let alone an egg or an ice cube, and yet you&#8217;re ascribing it to the Most Perfecting Being? And why do you have to make all of these confusing analogies just to understand the state of your Lord? God is One &#8211; He has no son, no wife, and no partners.&#8221;</span></p></blockquote>
<p>As the debate continued, I started seeing the chairs in the room sliding more towards our direction. Some tried working while listening, and others gave up entirely and tried to slide closer to better hear the discussion. Yet they were all silent &#8211; not once interrupting what was going on. This was quite interesting indeed &#8211; especially since more likely than not, I would have jumped into that kind of discussion had I been in their position.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p>The conversation soon turned to the state of this world &#8211;  and I said that in Islam we&#8217;re taught that we shouldn&#8217;t be attached to what is in this world because we&#8217;re not living for this life; rather, we live for the Hereafter, which is better and ever-lasting. And then he asked me a pretty random question &#8211; <b>&#8220;so you&#8217;re saying, if you were to lose all of the information on your laptop <i>(a pretty big deal for graphic designers)</i>, or if some one were to steal it, you wouldn&#8217;t be affected by it?&#8221;</b></p>
<p>Hmm&#8230; interesting. I replied &#8211; &#8220;in regards to how different Muslims would react, that is between them and their Lord. In regards to how I would react &#8211; no, I would not be affected.&#8221; It had, after all, happened to me before.<br />
Many design projects, a few years, and an accidental water spill later &#8211; my relationship with my Dell Latitude D610 seems to be coming to an <i>(seemingly irreversible)</i> end. Granted, some might say that it wasn&#8217;t the ideal computer for design (and they&#8217;d be right), but it did what I wanted it to do pretty well alhamdulillah.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p>The water spill came at a very interesting point &#8211; my friend had just IMed me and told me that she had a dream that we were at a wedding, and all the girls were sitting in a room and I was teaching her adhkaar. At that point, my screen became white, and colorful at the same time. I started supplicating while trying to blot the water off &#8211; but the damage had already been done.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p><i>Alhamdulillah for everything.</i></p>
<p>I went and made wudu, prayed two rak&#8217;at shukr and thanked Allah. I do not know the wisdom behind it now, but I know Allah subhanaHu wata&#8217;ala knows better than I do, and whatever He decrees for me, I am pleased with.</p>
<p>Indeed, I feel that this was a blessing to me &#8211; an opportunity to come closer to my Rabb. I asked Allah to strengthen me in patience, and to bring me closer to Him &#8211; and He sent me tests and hardships. Through His Wisdom, Allah has answered my du&#8217;as in this way. Yet look at the state this poor soul is in &#8211; sinning without even realizing it, spending more time concerned with this world than with Him&#8230;and yet He answers our du’as in such beautiful ways; <i><b>Is my Lord not then, the Most Merciful of those who are merciful?</b></i></p>
<p>Does He not say:</p>
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<p><b><span style="color:#006699;">Say: &#8220;O &#8216;Ibadi (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. </span></b>[Az-Zumar; ayah 53]</p>
<p><b><i>and what is it then, that stops us from seeking His forgiveness?</i></b></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 05:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I was younger, I would ask my mom if it was ok to swear at an inanimate object &#8211; like a chair if it fell, or any other thing. Her answer was no. She said if I got used to swearing at a chair, who was to say in my time of anger that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=22&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><i><b>When I was younger</b></i>, I would ask my mom if it was ok to swear at an inanimate object &#8211; like a chair if it fell, or any other thing. Her answer was no. She said if I got used to swearing at a chair, who was to say in my time of anger that I wouldn&#8217;t swear at others too?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So then I would say ok, well is it alright if I swear in my mind without ever saying it aloud? Her answer was still no. Persisting, I asked &#8211; why not? I figured that I wouldn&#8217;t harm anyone with it if was in my mind, so what was the problem? She said that once you get used to swearing in your mind, you can easily start to swear out loud. <i>Ahhh, ok, I get it now</i> : D</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"> So I started thinking &#8211; if this applies to swearing, this applies to everything else too. Whatever we keep and hoard in our minds is what determines our actions and the way we perform them. These thoughts start fermenting, determining how we think of others and how we ultimately view the world. <b><i>This power of thinking, subhanAllah, can lead you to rise or it can lead to your demise.</i></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>An evil thought starts off very small and perhaps even unnoticeable</b>, until everyone around you cannot deny the evil nature that you are emitting, and you yourself have been drowned in that stench far too long to know of anything else.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>A good thought on the other hand is like a seed that is planted, however small.</b> Every other good thought that you have acts as if it were water and sun to a much needed seedling. As these thoughts of goodness (once again, however small) accumulate, everyone around you would gather together and collectively notice this wonderful smell that flows from you, and you yourself come to know only of this goodness and this favorable smell as well.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>Ibn alQayyim</b> speaks timeless words of wisdom in his <i>al-Fawāid</i> when he says:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:#006699;"><span> </span>“Ward off passing thoughts, for if you do not, they will become ideas.<span><br />
</span>Ward off ideas, for if you do not, they will become desires.<span><br />
</span>Fight the desires, for if you do not, they will become resolve and determination.<span><br />
</span>And if you do not ward them off, they will become actions.<span><br />
</span>If you do not resist them with its opposite, they will become habits.<span><br />
</span>And it will be difficult for you to get rid of them.&#8221;</span></b></p></blockquote>
<p class="MsoNormal"> SubhanAllah, I learned when I was younger that even if I was upset at something, or at someone, to never think badly of them in my mind. Yeah, alright, perhaps there would be an occasional fight with my mother or father &#8211; but would I ever say in my mind<b> </b><i>&#8220;I hate them?&#8221;</i> No (alhamdulillah) &#8211; and if I even started to think it, I would reprimand myself and say -</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"> <i><span style="color:#990033;">How could you say this about them?</span></i><span style="color:#990033;"> <i>This is how you appreciate everything they&#8217;ve done for you?</i> What a terrible daughter you are then! They sacrifice all of these things for you, and Allah tells you to be content with them and obey them, and all of a sudden, they disagree with you on something and you start thinking like this? How could you? What kind of person are you then? </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#990033;">No, you do love them, and this disagreement they&#8217;ve had with you is a sign that they love you to, even if it might not seem that way. Even if you think you&#8217;re right, you can&#8217;t talk to them in any way you please. Go and apologize to them, before they&#8217;re upset with you for even another minute. And what if Allah doesn&#8217;t forgive you for it? Go!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"> And then I would go to them, my head down and my eyes teary and I would apologize to them. SubhanAllah, what a blessing I was able to think that way when I was 11. Indeed my parents were so pivotal to my upbringing and I thank them and Allah subhanaHu wata&#8217;ala for it. <b></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"> <b><br />
This is a blessing that I cannot pay for, but I can pray for &#8211; and that makes all the difference</b>; which of us is grateful and which of us is ungrateful? By Allah there is not a sajda that I make except that I include a du&#8217;a for my parents in it. May Allah preserve them and have mercy on them, for He has indeed been merciful to me through them.</p>
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		<title>such is the state of this world</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 10:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Tuesday, my eldest sis and I went to attend an engagement party at Byblos Banquets. As we were both sick, we didn&#8217;t know at first whether or not we should attend. Our desire to follow the sunnah encouraged us to go, however late we were. We arrived there at 8 pm, just in time [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=21&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">On Tuesday, my eldest sis and I went to attend an engagement party at <a href="http://byblosbanquets.com" target="_blank">Byblos Banquets</a>. As we were both sick, we didn&#8217;t know at first whether or not we should attend. Our desire to follow the sunnah encouraged us to go, however late we were. We arrived there at 8 pm, just in time for the dinner they were serving. It was a joyful enough party &#8211; though I think my sister and I were mainly elated over the fact that they had only played anasheed for the majority of the time, having decided we would duck out early were they to have any music.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We saw a close friend, who upon getting ready to leave, had told us of another friend who&#8217;s cousin had passed away in Palestine. My sister and I decided we should visit right away as well, so we all picked up our things and left for her house, arriving there at 9:30 pm.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This cousin of hers that passed away was shot by soldiers when he was exiting a masjid after praying either Dhuhr or Asr. He was 22 years of age and had been a hafith at 12 years old; may Allah grant him the highest levels of Paradise, and sakinah in his grave.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">SubhanAllah &#8211; imagine a mother losing her son while she is still alive to witness it! May Allah make it easier on their family. I keep thinking on how young he was &#8211; at the age where others are mapping out their lives and goals, his was ending. Indeed what <i>Hasan al-Basri</i> said rings true:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:#006699;">“O son of Adam, you are but a bundle of days. As each day passes, a portion of you vanishes away.”</span></b></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Time assuaged us to say our salam&#8217;s and set off towards our homes. My eldest sis and I went to drop off my close friend and her mom. It was 10:30 when we arrived in her driveway where I made the suggestion that we visit her neighbor (another good friend of ours), since she had just given birth the past Friday. She rang her up and gave us the ok to drop by. SubhanAllah, seeing the miracle of a newborn after hearing about the calamity of death&#8230;the night indeed had come full circle &#8211; and it hadn&#8217;t even reached 11 pm!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">How could I not reflect, when in less than three hours I had congratulated someone for their marriage, given condolences to a friend who had just lost a member of her family, and then rejoiced with another friend over her baby, a life Allah allowed into this world. Allahu Akbar walillahil Hamd &#8211; indeed, that is the state of this life!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>And what joy can we bring in a life that doesn&#8217;t stay constant with goodness? What joy can we truly have when we have yet to stand before our Lord humiliated with our sins? What joy can we have when we know that the grave is our next home, and the dirt our next companion? What price will we have purchased to reside comfortably therein?</b></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:#663300;">Is he whom We have promised an excellent promise (Paradise), which he will find true, like him whom We have made to enjoy the luxuries of the life of (this) world, then on the Day of Resurrection, he will be among those brought up (to be punished in the Hell-fire)?</span></b>   <i>[Al-Qasas, ayah 61]</i></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><i>Umar radiyaAllahu &#8216;anhu said:</i> <b><span style="color:#cc0066;">“Every day we say: ‘So and so has died, and so and so has died,’ and a day will come when people will say: ‘Umar has died.’” And he cried after mentioning this. </span></b></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[“There is no heart that does not have clouds like the clouds that cover the moon. When the cloud covers it, it is dark and when the cloud moves away, it shines.” Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam My nafs and I often have a discourse that takes place regularly on Sunday evenings. It usually [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=19&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:#336699;">“There is no heart that does not have clouds like the clouds that cover the moon. When the cloud covers it, it is dark and when the cloud moves away, it shines.” </span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><i>Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam</i></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">My nafs and I often have a discourse that takes place regularly on Sunday evenings. It usually goes something like this:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:purple;">i:</span></b> <i>Hey, tomorrow is Monday, don&#8217;t forget to fast.</i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>nafs:</b> C&#8217;mon, again? Can&#8217;t you just stop for this Monday, and then you&#8217;ll fast the next one?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:purple;">i:</span></b> <i>Hmm&#8230;that does sound like a good idea. </i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:purple;">i: </span></b><i>But hey, wait&#8230; isn&#8217;t that what you&#8217;re going to tell me the next Monday too? Man, why are you so lazy?</i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><strong>nafs: </strong>But think about it, are you <b><i>really</i></b> going to be fasting for every Monday for the <b>rest</b> of your <i>LIFE</i>?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:purple;">i:</span></b> <i>Hmm&#8230;that does sound like a long time huh.</i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>nafs:</b> Yes it does, might as well take a break!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:purple;">i:</span></b> <i>Wait wait, no! How can you guarantee that I will be alive next monday? What if I die tomorrow? How long does my life sound then? <b>By Allah,</b> I will fast tomorrow, unless He plans otherwise. And that&#8217;s final</i>.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>nafs:</b> Dang it. I lost again didn&#8217;t I? Man, but fasting on Mondays&#8230; ma shaa Allah, you&#8217;re so dedicated.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:purple;">i:</span></b> <i>Man that&#8217;s low &#8211; don&#8217;t even try the arrogance trap on me. There&#8217;s only one reason you lost and one reason only, and that&#8217;s because Allah granted me tawfeeq over you and may you never have tawfeeq over me!</i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span></span><b><span style="color:#993366;">“O Allah, I am tough, make me soft. I am weak; make me strong. I am miserly; make me generous.” </span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><i>Umar radiyaAllahu &#8216;anhu</i></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Currently I&#8217;m considered a traveler (in Toronto) probably until Monday night or early Tuesday morning, so I didn&#8217;t need that nafs war alhamdulillah. Indeed there is a hikmah in everything, and Allah subhanaHu wata&#8217;ala knows what we are able to handle.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"> Current exciting news &#8211; alhamdulillah I was able to purchase the new Usool al Fiqh CD set from EmanRush while at the RIS convention; it was one of my favorite classes so I&#8217;m tickled (yes tickled : D ) that I get to review it : ) walhamdulillah!</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 10:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was one day a few months back where I had gotten off to a late start in the morning and found myself hurrying to get to work on time. Of course this meant I was speeding, but I was trying to be reasonable about it. 45 on a 30 mile per hour zone sounded [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=18&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">There was one day a few months back where I had gotten off to a late start in the morning and found myself hurrying to get to work on time. Of course this meant I was speeding, but I was trying to be reasonable about it. 45 on a 30 mile per hour zone sounded reasonable to me anyway, especially since that particular street is quite popular with cops (otherwise I probably would have been going 60). My speeding plans were going well, until one car turned onto the one lane street I was on and decided to follow the law.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Times New Roman';"></span>It would seem at that anxious moment in time that nothing would be more frustrating than a civilian who ardently follows the law, and happens along in front of you when you so ardently planned on breaking it. Man, this guy was going t-h-i-r-t-y<span>  </span>- <i>painstakingly slow</i> &#8211; m-i-l-e-s<span>  </span>p-e-r<span>  </span>h-o-u-r. SubhanAllah, I thought &#8211; if some cops were to see him pass, they&#8217;d have waved at him for sticking so enthusiastically to the law.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Now, I couldn&#8217;t beep at him for following the speed limit, and I couldn&#8217;t pass him either. In the time where I was completely rushed, Allah subhanaHu wa Ta&#8217;ala made it so that I was forced to slow down.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">During the (painstakingly) slow trip down Tireman   St. behind the law abiding car, I thought of how this situation reminded me of the characteristic of a good friend.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here I was (&#8220;the bad friend&#8221;) fervently trying to break the law (ie speed). I had mapped it out in my mind, and while I knew that there could be repercussions for my actions (cops &gt;&gt; tickets), I was willing to take that chance anyway. After all, I was mainly thinking of what I wanted right at that instant &#8211; to get to work &#8211; and it had nothing to do with following the law.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Everything would have been fine &#8211; had that car directly in front of me been somewhere else. I couldn&#8217;t swear because that&#8217;s just not nice and quite unislamic too (plus this version of the bad friend doesn&#8217;t swear alhamdulillah : ). I couldn&#8217;t get angry because&#8230; well after all, he <i>is</i> following the law, not even one mile under it. And I couldn&#8217;t even pass him so that he&#8217;d be able to go on following the law on his merry own without forcing me into it too &#8211; but good Gracious God. There was no way to get past him.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I started thinking&#8230; <i>am I like this law abiding car to my friends?</i> Do I force them to slow down and take it easy when they so ardently want to commit a sin &#8211; when many or even one sin is beautified to them?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><i>Or was I the one being slowed down by one (or all) of my good friends?</i> And if I wasn&#8217;t being slowed down, <b>what kind of friends did I keep? One&#8217;s that would pull me out of the HellFire? Or ones that would cause me to enter it?</b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I am definitely still reflecting over this analogy, and I pray that Allah makes me (and my friends) of those who allow their friends to enter into goodness while leading them away from haram.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"> And that, alhamdulillah, is how my attempt at speeding allowed me to remember Allah and the condition of my nafs, even when I thought I was too busy to remember it. Look at the Graciousness of our Rabb! : ) Walillahil Hamdu waShukr.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Abu Musa Al-Ash`ari <i>(may Allah be pleased with him)</i> reported that the Prophet <i>(sallaAllahu ‘alayhi wasallam)</i> said:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:#993366;"><span>    </span>“The example of a good companion and a bad one is the bearer of musk and the worker on the bellows. A bearer of musk would give you some, you might buy some from him, or you might enjoy the fragrance of his musk. The worker on the bellows, on the other hand, might spoil your clothes with sparks from his bellows, or you get a bad smell from him.”</span></b><br />
<i>(Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim, this version found in Muslim)</i></p></blockquote>
<p class="MsoNormal">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">On the authority of Abu Hurairah:</p>
<blockquote>
<p class="MsoNormal"> <b><span style="color:#336699;">“Man models himself after his companion; so let each one of you see who he chooses for companion”<span>  </span></span></b><br />
<i>(At-Tirmidhi)</i></p></blockquote>
<p><b><i>May Allah subhanaHu waTa’ala make us of those who are blessed with having good friends, and who are blessed with being good friends. Ameen!</i></b></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 May 2007 05:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[These past two to three weeks I&#8217;ve found myself really really busy walhamdulillah. I found it hard to do things that I indulged in while I tried refocusing my efforts to what was necessary and what needed to get done. Unfortunately, this blog was hit as a result of that. Khair in shaa Allah. I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=16&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These past two to three weeks I&#8217;ve found myself really really busy walhamdulillah. I found it hard to do things that I indulged in while I tried refocusing my efforts to what was necessary and what needed to get done. Unfortunately, this blog was hit as a result of that. Khair in shaa Allah.</p>
<p>I am definately more keen, however, on having this blog reflect my thoughts almost every other day as I try to come closer to Allah. Therefore the fact that I wasn&#8217;t writing might have meant that I wasn&#8217;t reflecting upon what had happened during my day and thus had nothing to write about. Fortunately, by the Mercy and Graciousness of Allah, that wasn&#8217;t the case. Walhamdulillah, I had TONS to write about! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  So many topics and so many instances where my reflections  impacted me in getting closer to Allah subhanaHu wata3ala and that I <em>wanted</em> to document went unwritten.</p>
<p>There was a recent death in my family<span id="more-16"></span> (my dad&#8217;s uncle in Egypt), which we found out about the <strong>day</strong> <em>after</em> my younger sisters nikah (which was held on May 5th). SubhanAllah, my sisters nikah alone brought many tests of patience, blessings, and reflections. To have found out about the death a day after the nikah when we could have found out 2 days prior &#8211; indeed that was a blessing from Allah.</p>
<p>We held the 3azza at our house and we had women visit and another lead the halaqah. SubhanAllah, one day people are visiting you rejoicing in your happiness, and the next day they are condoling you in your loss. How odd the state of this world is! It certainly makes you realize that the life of this world means nothing &#8211; one day you are gaining something, and the other day you are losing it. Indeed to Allah we belong and to Him we return.</p>
<p>We were reminded of an ayah -</p>
<p><img src="http://quranicrealm.com/images/57_22.gif" align="left" height="107" width="530" /></p>
<p><strong>No calamity befalls on the earth or in yourselves but is inscribed in the Book of Decrees, before We bring it into existence. Verily, that is easy for Allah.</strong></p>
<p><img src="http://quranicrealm.com/images/57_23.gif" align="left" height="114" width="561" /></p>
<p><strong>In order that you may not be sad over matters that you fail to get, <em>nor rejoice because of that which has been given to you.</em> And Allah likes not prideful boasters.</strong></p>
<p align="right"><em>[Surat Al-Hadeed (57):22-23]</em></p>
<p>SubhanAllah! Indeed it is Allah who is leading us to understand and come to know the worth this life has. Don&#8217;t be sad over that which you don&#8217;t get &#8211; and don&#8217;t be happy over that which you <em>do</em> get&#8230; why?? Because this world in the reality of things, is worthless.</p>
<p>If I had been given a toy car in this world, while knowing the bounties of the real thing (ie a real car, oh lets say, a Lexus) and what lies ahead &#8211; getting upset if its broken or taken away from me, or rejoicing in having this &#8220;awesometastic&#8221; toy becomes <em>extremely</em> trivial &#8211; almost pathetic really (sheesh &#8211; get over the toy already!!). Allah subhanaHu wata3ala is redirecting our focus. A beautiful Paradigm shift indeed : ) walhamdulillah</p>
<p>The Messenger of Allaah said:</p>
<blockquote><p> &#8220;If the world meant as much as a <span class="highlight">wing</span> of a <span class="highlight">mosquito</span> to Allaah, he would have not let the disbeliever take a drink of water from it&#8221; <em>(Reported by at-Tirmidhi)</em></p></blockquote>
<p>and</p>
<blockquote><p>  &#8220;What is the world compared to the Afterlife except like one of you was to put his finger in a sea and see how much water it retains&#8221; <em>(Reported by Sahih Muslim and at-Tirmidhi)</em></p></blockquote>
<p>The halaqah that was held at my place during the 3azza produced so many beautiful fruits and gems subhanAllah &#8211; I also wanted to share them, and so I plan to bi idhnillah, hopefully in another post, relatively soon<em>ish</em>.</p>
<p>And then of course my day of birth had passed walhamdulillah, and I noticed a large difference in the way I was coping with getting older from last year to this year (alhamdulillah, I wasn&#8217;t hyperventilating this time <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  ). The day after, I had the blessed opportunity of going to the <a href="http://www.almaghrib.org/ilmfest/" target="_blank">IlmFest in Toronto</a> with part of my family and a few friends. Although it was only a day, you could sincerely feel the barakah in that conference. There was so much benefit to be had from that one day that three days at another convention would definately not have provided. May Allah continue to bless the IlmFest, wherever it ends up&#8230; Ameen! I also wanted to write about my reflections on the lectures during that time, so yet another post bi idhnillah.</p>
<p>This past weekend I was able to go to a Muslim camp around 2 and a half hours away from where I lived. I&#8217;d gone around 6 years ago as an attendee, and had the opportunity of going this year as a counselor. The reason I was really excited to go to this camp (besides hopefully being a good influence on some girls bi idhnillah) was because of our surroundings. The camp overlooks one of the Great Lakes and to witness the sun rising and setting across the water is literally breathtaking subhanAllah. Such beautiful serenity &#8211;  ma shaa Allah.</p>
<p>After Fajr when my girls would decide to go back to sleep in their cabins, I&#8217;d prepare myself a mug of hot cocoa from the mess hall (you could make it any time of the day you wanted! &#8211; it was so cool ma shaa Allah : ), sit on the steps behind that building and read Qur&#8217;an and adhkar while watching the sun rise. SubhanAllah, this happens every morning &#8211; and I get a chance to witness it today! What a blessing from Allah.</p>
<p>I would occassionaly take pictures of the sun on the lake &#8211; I had only my camera phone to use, so the quality could have been better, walhamdulillah that I was even able to *take* pictures <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Right after fajr</p>
<p><img src="http://img182.imageshack.us/img182/3231/photo052607001zw7.jpg" alt="The image “http://img182.imageshack.us/img182/3231/photo052607001zw7.jpg” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors." height="433" width="578" /></p>
<p>A few more minutes after fajr:</p>
<p><img src="http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/2929/photo052607004ju4.jpg" alt="The image “http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/2929/photo052607004ju4.jpg” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors." height="438" width="585" /></p>
<p>Towards the end of my adhkar making:</p>
<p><img src="http://img263.imageshack.us/img263/9873/photo052607009le9.jpg" alt="The image “http://img263.imageshack.us/img263/9873/photo052607009le9.jpg” cannot be displayed, because it contains errors." height="440" width="588" /></p>
<p>and then there&#8217;s the maghrib time shot when we had first arrived, we went down to the beach to get a better view&#8230; subhanAllah:</p>
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<p>The adhkaar which really had a large effect on me were from the book <a href="http://www.al-rashad.com/Prayers-for-Forgiveness-Softcover/?osCsid=9e117595931a112c39f9431fe6d05f73">&#8220;Prayers for Forgiveness: Seeking Spiritual Enlightenment through Sincere Supplication&#8221;</a> narrated by Hasan Al-Basri.</p>
<p>One that particulary had an effect on me &#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;O Allah, I seek Your forgiveness for every sin with which my enemies intended to disgrace me, but You turned their plotting away from me and did not assist them in disgracing me, as though I were Your obedient servant; and You sustained me until it seemed as though I were Your friend. Until when, O my Lord, will I disobey You and You continue giving me respite? Long indeed have I disobeyed You and You have not punished me; and long indeed have I, with all my evil deeds, beseeched You and You have granted me my requests. What meager thanks of mine can measure up, in Your sight, to even one of Your many blessings upon me?</p>
<p>So send blessings and peace, O my Lord, upon our Master Muhammad, and upon the family of our Master Muhammad, and forgive my sin, O Best of those who forgive!</p></blockquote>
<p>If any sister wants this book, please contact me so that I may make it easily available to you bi idhnillah.</p>
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		<title>Reclining Therein, Face to Face</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amatullah: As Salaamu &#8216;Alaykum Ala: Wa&#8217;alaykum us Salaam Warahmatulahee Wabarakatuhu Amatullah: , how are you, Ala? Ala: walhamdulillah, by the Mercy and Greatness of Allah, I am well how are you habeebty? Amatullah: Alhamdulillah, the heart is a little weak, tears have ceased from coming, but Allaah has blessed the limbs with life and a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=13&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#666699;">Amatullah</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#666699;">:</span></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">As Salaamu &#8216;</span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Alaykum</span><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;"></span></em></strong><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;"><br />
Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;">Wa&#8217;alaykum us Salaam Warahmatulahee Wabarakatuhu </span><strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#333399;"><span class="salutation"><br />
Amatullah:</span></span></em></strong><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> , how are you, </span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;">Ala</span>?<span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;"></span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;"><br />
Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;">walhamdulillah, by the Mercy and Greatness of Allah, I am well </span><strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"><br />
how are you habeebty?</span><br />
<strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#333399;"><span class="salutation">Amatullah:</span></span></em></strong><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Alhamdulillah, the heart is a little weak, tears have ceased from coming, but Allaah has blessed the limbs with life and a chance for repentance, and to that this &#8216;Abd is ever grateful</span></span><span id="more-13"></span><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;"><br />
<span class="salutation">Ala:</span></span></em></strong><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">subhanAllah, wa lillahil hamdu jamee3a</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>I apologize for the descriptive reply, but you asked, and I wanted to be as truthful as I could</span><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;"><br />
<span class="salutation">Ala:</span></span></em></strong><span class="salutation"><span style="color:black;"> </span>why would you apologize for such a beautiful reply? subhanAllah, your reply was better than mine</span><br />
<span class="salutation">may Allah subhanaHu wata3ala honor us through the deen&#8230; Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Aameen</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">what a beautiful person you are subhanAllah, may Allah grant you jannahtul firdaws&#8230;</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation">Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>By the one who is in charge of my affairs, I am not, yet I pray Allaah makes me beautiful in khuluq and makes me better of what others think of me, Aameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation">And to you be the same, Aameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation">Do tell me, how are the wedding plans?</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Ameen Ameen</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation">walhamdulillah, it seems like they are going along smoothly</span><br />
<span class="salutation">but i suppose one never knows until the event actually transpires</span><br />
<span class="salutation">and may Allah grant that gathering serenity and barakah&#8230; Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>We plan and Allaah is the best of planners. In the end, it is never our efforts that guarantee success, tawfeeq is from Allaah</span><br />
<span class="salutation">In shaa Allah, I Pray everything goes as planned and better, Aameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation">and may Allah grant us that tawfeeq</span><br />
<span class="salutation">Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Aameen:D</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">i wish i could make you some spiced chai, and sit on the couch reflecting with you</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation">may Allah grant that to us soon&#8230; Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Aameen, I pray that you and I are on high thrones facing one another, binded by the sisterhood of Islaam, rejoicing and thanking Allaah for HIS ni3maa upon us</span><br />
<span class="salutation">May that blessed day be soon, and may it take place in jannatul firdaus</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Aameen</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Ameen!! mutakieena 3alaya mutaqaabileen&#8230; subhanAllah Ameen</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Aameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation">May I share an emotion with you?</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;">of course! </span><strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>When I talk/type to you, my heart feels like it is flying, my surroundings calm, and peace decends. I don&#8217;t intend to praise, I intend to bring more mu7ibah between us</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>subhanAllah, I am glad you shared that&#8230; because I felt and thought this exact same thing any time I read what you wrote, walhamdulillah</span><br />
<span class="salutation">I don&#8217;t even know what amazing measure of Mercy Allah subhanaHu wata3ala has bestowed upon me to have you feel the same way&#8230; walhamdulillah!</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Indeed Allaah is ever giving, we will not then take heed?</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;">subhanAllah&#8230; may Allah forgive us if we don&#8217;t </span><strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"> and may He lead us to rightousness</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation">I was just speaking to a friend of mine about this yesterday.. subhanAllah&#8230; and i put some of it on my wordpress</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Aameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation">Subhana Allaah, I will read it</span><br />
<span class="salutation">ya illaahi</span><br />
<span class="salutation">Oh Allaah, on this blessed day, bare witness ya Allaah, the angels, jinns, and even the ardh, that I love your slave, Ala solely for your sake, wallaahi innahul haq</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>subhanAllah&#8230; laa illaha illah ant&#8230; Allah has granted me such a beautiful friend, may Allah make me a beautiful friend to her&#8230; may Allah make me a beautiful friend to her&#8230; Ameen!</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Aameen, and to me the same</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>I bear witness ya Allah, that from your Greatness, You descended Your Mercy and Compassion to me, and granted me the sweetness of loving Your slave for Your sake&#8230; enter us into Jannah together oh Allah.. Aamineen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>Hand in hand, In shaa Allaah. By Allaah, may I share my thoughts?</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">of course subhanAllah</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>I closed my eyes after reading that beautiful comment and thought of abu Bakr when Ar-Rasool SalAllaahu &#8216;Alayhi Wa Sallaam told him that he would be making hijra with him. He weeped out of happiness, as &#8216;Aisha narrated and commented that she never thought anyone could cry from happiness</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">subhanAllah<br />
throughout this conversation I&#8217;ve been crying, and when I read that, I realized that it was truly out of happiness, but shame as well subhanAllah<br />
how Merciful Allah is to us, and how deserving are we of His Mercy??</span><br />
<strong><span style="color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>I love mu&#8217;adh ibn jabal! And this reminds me of an incident with him and my nabi, SalAllaahu &#8216;alayhi Wa sallam</span><br />
<span class="salutation">He grabbed him (mu&#8217;adh) and said, &#8216;Oh mu&#8217;adh, I love you so say&#8221;Allaahuma a 3ini 3ala dhikrika wa shukrika wa husni 3ibadika&#8221;</span><br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">Ala</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#a40000;">:</span></em></strong></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"> </span></span><span class="salutation"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;">Allahumma a3ini 3ala dhikriKa wa shukriKa wa husni 3abadiKa&#8230; Ameen!</span></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<span class="salutation">jazakillahu khairan for that beautiful reminder of our rasool, sallaAllahu 3alayhi wasallam</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>May I ask you to head out now?</span><br />
<span class="salutation">I must go to sleep, I have work tomorrow, In sha Allaah</span><br />
<span class="salutation">and may I suggest the same of you</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>that is fine, I am highly pleased at the time that I was able to spend with you tonight</span><br />
<span class="salutation">especially since I did not know I was going to be able to</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>The pleasure was indeed all mine:D</span><br />
<span class="salutation">I love you fe sabilillah</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>I hope to go to sleep within an hour and a half, I&#8217;ve taken a short sleep earlier which was 2 hours&#8230; so I am a bit awake&#8230; and I should finish cleaning before I head off, even tho I have work tomorrow</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span>walhamdulillah, I love you for the sake of Allah as well.. may the One for who&#8217;s sake you love me for&#8230; Love you&#8230; Ameen</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">Aameen, with a smile upon my face and heart I leave you</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">take care my dear Amatullah, and Jazakillahu khairan for staying up a little more subhanAllah<br />
walhamdulillah </span><strong><span style="color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">and know that if this is our last meeting, what a last meeting.<br />
Indeed there is a meeting we shall have (In shaa Allaah) that shall never end<br />
</span><span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">may Allah grant it to us without punishment, although our souls ever deserve to be punished </span><strong><span style="color:#005fff;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></strong><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#333399;">Amatullah:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">with that, I great you with the greating of ahlul jannah, As Salaamu &#8216;Alaykum Wa Rahatmaullahi Wa Barakaatuhu</span><br />
<span class="salutation"><strong><em><span style="color:#a40000;">Ala:</span></em></strong><span style="color:black;"> </span></span><span style="color:black;">Wa&#8217;alaykum us Salaam Warahmatulahee Wabarakatuhu!<br />
&lt;3 </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;"><em><span style="color:black;">*My friends name has been changed upon her request, although her real name is very dear to me*</span></em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">  <img src="http://quranicrealm.com/images/56_16.gif" align="left" height="72" width="506" /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Reclining thereon, face to face. [Surat AlWaqi'ah (56): 16]</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><img src="http://quranicrealm.com/images/38_51.gif" align="left" height="72" width="546" /></p>
<p>Therein will they recline (at ease): Therein can they call (at  pleasure) for fruit in abundance, and (delicious) drink;  [Surat Saad (38):51]<span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"></span><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:black;"></span></p>
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		<title>Good Manners</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allah alayhi wa sallam said: &#8220;A believer may achieve the status of one who fasts during the day regularly and spends the night regularly in prayer: through his good manners.&#8221; and&#8230;  The believer gets along with people and they feel comfortable with him. There is no goodness in the one who [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=blessedmuslimah.wordpress.com&amp;blog=419540&amp;post=14&amp;subd=blessedmuslimah&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"> Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allah alayhi wa sallam said:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color:#666699;">&#8220;A believer may achieve the status of one who fasts during the day regularly and spends the night regularly in prayer: through his good manners.&#8221;</span></strong><span style="font-size:9pt;font-family:Arial;color:#666699;"></span></p>
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<p><em>and&#8230; </em></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><strong><span style="color:#993366;">The believer gets along with people and they feel comfortable with him. There is no goodness in the one who does not get along with people and with whom they do not feel comfortable.</span></strong><span style="color:#993366;"></span></p>
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<p><em>[Second hadith - Reported by Ahmad and al-Bazar; the men of Ahmad's isnad are rijal as-sahih]</em></p>
<p>May Allah subhanaHu wata3ala make us of them. Ameen!</p>
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